It helps to hype yourself up with positive self-talk beforehand. “Hand jobs may feel less intimidating to you, and they can help you get used to playing with a penis,” she says - or a vagina, or any other sex organ you’re planning to give oral to. “Practice breathing in and out of your nose, and try to get yourself to relax … The idea is just to get used to having something in your mouth.” You can also use your hands to help you get the other person off. “At first, practice simply holding the object in your mouth,” she says. Marin suggests practicing on a sex toy to ease your nerves if you’re really getting in your head. Once you’ve checked in with yourself, you can start preparing for your first time giving oral sex. So, your first step is making sure you’re ready and enthusiastic about taking this step. “You get to decide which specific sexual acts you do and don’t want to participate in,” sex therapist Vanessa Marin previously told Bustle. The key is making sure you’ve both given consent, you’re excited, and that you trust the person you’re about to go down on. When the time and place is right, oral sex can also be extremely satisfying, either as foreplay or as the main event. This sex act can be nervewracking the first few times you try it, and that’s totally OK. I'll post about that some other time maybe.There’s a first time for everything - including oral sex.
That time wasn't that great, but there was one time in LA that I picked up this dude hitchhiking that still gets me rock hard to this day when I think about it. But it was my intro to oral sex with dudes. I didn't like it, and to this day, I still don't. I was pretty loaded still, and wondered what that would be like. Then he asked if he could fuck me in the ass. It was more or less just mildly pleasurable for me. Then I wondered what it would be like to suck another dude's cock. Then he suggested that we go in the other room and get naked. He came over, knelt down, and started sucking my cock. I figured - what the hell, nobody will ever know. I hesitated and then he said "I'd even give you a blow job myself".
It sounded tempting, but I didn't want to tell HIM that! I said "No way!" He said "Why not? If fuckin' feels good!". He said "Let me see what I can do" and he came back in the room and said "I got a place for you, but you have to let the dude give you a blow job". I told him that I had been there earlier and there were no crash pads. The dude from the Diggers took me inside. I had rolled right off the edge of the wall into the alley. Next thing I knew, I felt a blow to the head and the cans were flying. The yard was a small one, being in the city, and at the edge of the yard, it dropped off into a back alley with the trash cans. I did and popped another red and conked out again. Anyway, I got to the Diggers and this dude called around and said that there was nothing available in the way of a crash pad, but I was welcome to lay my sleeping bag out in the back yard. Those were the days! Lots of sex, great drugs, GREAT music and no hassles.
#PORNHUB GAY FIRST TIME ORAL FREE#
The diggers were a bunch of freaks who did free things for the hip community, such as lining up crash pads for hitchhikers passing thru, or feeding people at the many free concerts in Golden Gate Park or the massive "Love-In's" at the park every Sunday. I hitched a ride to Haight Ashbury and tried to find a crash pad. I was hoping I could get her to bed, and I might very well have done so, but I downed a couple of reds after I got the ride and I really conked out. I got a ride in Santa Barbara from this chick.
I had some pot and some reds and I headed out to SF. I had hair halfway down to my ass and was deeply involved in hippiedom.